The pair married in May 2008 and share three children

Cash Warren and Jessica Alba in Beverly Hills, California, on March 27, 2022. Photo: Frazer Harrison/Getty

Jessica Alba and her husband Cash Warren have reportedly split.

TMZ reports that the two are nearing a divorce after 16 years of marriage.

Alba’s rep didn’t immediately respond to a request for comment.

Alba, 43, and Warren, 45, first met in Vancouver in 2004 on the set of the superhero flick Fantastic Four. The actress played Sue Storm, while Warren worked as a director’s assistant.

They wed on May 19, 2008, and have three children together: daughters Honor, 16, and Haven, 13, plus son Hayes, 7.

The pair put on a united front to celebrate son Hayes’ 7th birthday earlier in January. In a cryptic message on New Year’s Eve, Alba wrote that her 2024 was “filled with connection, growth, adventures, laughter, peace, sisterhood, transformation, rebirth, joy and so much love.”

Cash Warren and Jessica Alba with daughters Haven and Honor in Los Angeles on June 11, 2024. ï»¿Phillip Faraone/Getty

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In September 2021, the Honest Company founder spoke to PEOPLE about building her business empire, parenting and her marriage with Warren. She said at the time that they both would share their individual needs to prioritize their relationship.

“At different times, there were different things that we needed. Around the time I had the kids, it was like, ‘I need [date night] once a week.’ And he’s been like, ‘I need you to be present on the weekends and not work,’ ” she said, explaining they’d often “over-communicate what’s happening before it gets to the point of no return.”

“I don’t think we have a secret at all,” Alba added. “We just have to check each other.”

In July 2021, Alba got candid about juggling parenting responsibilities and her marriage in a conversation on Katherine Schwarzenegger Pratt‘s Instagram series Before, During & After Baby.

“I think that he probably gets the short end of the stick. And it’s not even him, I would say it’s us,” she said at the time. “When I’m seeing him and spending time with him and we’re really enjoying each other, it’s an ‘us’ thing and it feeds me as well. It’s hard. It’s impossible.”

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Cash Warren and Jessica Alba. Michael Bezjian/WireImage

“It’s all rosy for two and a half years. But then after that you become roommates,” the Sin City actress added, laughing. “You’re just going through the motions. You have the responsibilities; it’s a lot of, like, checking the boxes, right?”

She said they used to “at least” do weekly date nights, “but then that stops because of whatever.”

As Alba explained, “We’re just not consistent. But being able to communicate when you’re unhappy and nipping it right away instead of letting it sort of fester, and then you have animosity and then it explodes — which we’ve gone through that one!”

“We have, obviously, the friendship, the comfort of ‘You’re not going anywhere,’ so sometimes you don’t treat those people the best. You don’t consider their feelings in the way that you would consider other people’s feelings,” she said. “That is something I think is a constant one to work on.”

Cash Warren and Jessica Alba in Los Angeles on June 11, 2024. Stefanie Keenan/Getty

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Alba added, “It’s a life journey, and if you’re both every day deciding to do it, it’s gonna work out, regardless of the drama, regardless of anything that happens.”

The actress shared a post on Instagram filled with photos of the couple throughout their 16 years of marriage to celebrate their anniversary in May 2024.

“I’m proud of us for making it this far. There is no real set of rules or guidance that can ever prepare you for what it means to commit to another person and choose to be family,” she wrote.

Continued Alba, “Through thick and thin we have continually found our way back to each other and have chosen one another.”